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Posted By iamincontrol | March 6, 2014
For many people, high school means trying to fit in and doing what other kids are doing to fit in. In middle school I was overweight and because of that I was picked on. I had friends, but I was not in the “popular group.” Before starting high school I lost all my extra weight and I was proud of myself. I had a new look for myself and had more self-confidence. All of a sudden I was in the popular group and now I was doing the bullying. I felt like I had to do what my new friends were doing, so I could stay with the in crowd.
Before I knew it I was making decisions just to stay in the popular crowd that I know my mom and dad did not raise me to make. I was drinking on a daily basis, and I even picked up smoking. I lied to my parents and lost their trust. When I started college I regularly skipped classes. At this point in my life I had hit rock bottom. My boyfriend of three years broke up with me, I failed classes, and my drinking led me to an OWI. As a result of my OWI I lost my license and had to spend time in jail (possibly affecting my chance of getting a job in the future). At this point I needed to assess my life and change the direction I was going.
I decided I needed to change my whole life and just focus on me. I needed to figure out what was important in my life and strive to achieve things, like my schooling. I focused all my attention on my studies and myself. I joined a gym and worked out on a daily basis. I quit drinking alcohol, along with pop. The only places I usually went were school, the gym, and my house. I once again lost a bunch of weight and had more self-confidence, along with a better overall feeling about myself. Everyone will make mistakes in their life, but the important part is that you learn from the mistakes and better your future. I have now graduated with my Dental Hygiene degree and am about to graduate with my bachelor’s degree. Be the person you want to be and not the person someone else wants you to be just to fit in with the popular crowd.