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Posted By iamincontrol | September 2, 2014
Last month’s poll question was:
Do you feel like people just group you into that one thing you’re good at? (i.e. jock, band nerd, artist, goth, etc.)
You guys overwhelmingly said:
- Definitely. People don’t realize there’s more to me.
Here’s how Hayley learned how to embrace feeling more than one word.
We all have that one thing we feel defines us. You could be an athlete, a musician, a mathlete, or a dancer. We often use this one word to describe us and measure our worth. However, we are much more than this one word.
In high school I was the cheerleader. That is until my junior year when I got cut from the squad. I was super upset knowing that all of my friends would be cheering without me. Although I missed cheering on my boys to a victory in football or basketball, not making the squad didn’t turn out as bad as I thought. I was able to get involved in other activities, and it was during this time that I met some of my best friends. I had fun in the stands at sporting events, and I was able to find new passions.
Although losing that one thing you identify with may be hard, it doesn’t always have to be bad. So yes, be the athlete, musician, or dancer, but know that there is more to high school and much more to life. One door may close, but countless others will be opened. Branch out, make new friends, and remember you are more than just that one word.
Posted By iamincontrol | July 29, 2014
I have had severe anxiety since I started junior high school. Stomach aches and panic attacks were issues that I had to face daily. Even going to school or the store caused me extreme anxiety. I understand how it feels to be scared of daily events, and I never want anyone to have to feel the way I did. That’s why I want to write this blog and help anyone who has feelings like these. You are never alone, even though it may feel like it.
I remember my anxiety started to show the day my mother left to go on a trip without me. My mom dropped me off for school like normal, and after school I was to stay with my sister for a week. I had never spent that much time away from my mom, and I was terrified that something was going to happen to her. Right after I got to school, I felt extremely sick and I asked my mom to stay home with me. She of course couldn’t, and I was distraught. I went and stayed with the counselor for the rest of the day because I couldn’t get my anxiety under control.
Posted By iamincontrol | July 15, 2014
One of the most important parts of my high school career was athletics. Throughout high school I participated in volleyball, soccer, and softball. Volleyball and softball had been sports that I had played practically my whole life. Soccer, on the other hand, I had never competitively played until my sophomore year in high school. By the end of my three years of soccer I was so sad that it was over. I had improved so much over that time and wished I could have played longer. Soccer helped me make strong friendships and a strong body. I have never been more in shape in my life than when I was out for soccer.
Athletics are a great way to stay in shape, make new friends and spend time with old ones, and also another way to stay out of trouble. Even if athletics aren’t your forte, there are other high school groups that students can get involved with. Athletics just have the added bonus of improving your fitness. My experience also taught me it’s great to try new things because you may find out that you really enjoy it!
Visit this site for more information on extracurricular activities and how to find one that’ll be right for you.
You are in control of trying new things.