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Posted By iamincontrol | December 30, 2014
Top Ten New Years Resolutions for Teens
Have a Good Relationship with My Body- Enjoy parts of your body and embrace what’s been given.
- Change my Attitude about Food-Treat food as something needed to nourish your body, so do those Cheetos® do the trick or that apple?
- Stay in touch- a 2010 study showed that if you don’t have a connection to social ties and they are broken you are more prone to mental health issues.
- Exercise More- We all know that exercise helps with our health but also makes us feel good about our selves.
- Volunteer- A 2010 study found that people with positive emotions (such as volunteering) were 20% less like to have a heart attack and were more resilient and resourceful
- Get more sleep-Lack of sleep causes your skin to age, forget things, gain weight, makes you dumber.
- Set goals for ourselves- It’s easy to accomplish things when we have goals. It’s also meta to set goals as your new years resolution. Right?
- Have more confidence-join a group at school, ask someone to hang out, make more friends
- Cut toxic people out of my life- Negative people can bring you down, identify if they are needed in your life. Parents do NOT count.
- Spend less time on Twitter, Instagram, and Kik-Studies show that increase time on social media can lead to depression and other things
Now its time for you to decide, but let us know what you do decide. Our poll next month will ask:
Does your New Years Resolution involve?
- Nutrition (Cut back on drinking energy drinks and/or soda, Eat less Cheetos, etc)
- Body Image (be happy when I look in the mirror, embrace my love handles, etc.)
- Mental Health (smile more, look up Classic Joke Wednesday on Ellen and share them, etc.)
- Exercise (Dance around to “Shake it Off” by T. Swift for thirty minutes a day)
- Sexual Health (Find out about different contraceptives, figure out how to use a condom)
- Life Skills (Start a savings, embrace my haters, etc )
Posted By iamincontrol | December 9, 2014
It’s finally the holiday season—-YES!! Just give me that Thanksgiving Turkey, Christmas Cookies, and Candy Canes. I eat just as much as the next person. AND then, New Years Eve hits and say good-bye to the last two months of over indulgences. But recently, I’ve been on this new kick that I suggest we all move to. As you think about those news years’ resolutions, I know many will jump to create a resolution about their body or weight. And it is great to have goals.
But rather than changing our weight, we need to start creating a relationship with our body. Our body has needs just like everything: it wants attention, nutrients, and exercise. We have to create a relationship with our body. One that treats it with respect by identifying what types of attention it needs. One that gives it foods that help it feel good like vegetables and proteins, rather than sugars and fats that make us feel lousy. One that moves it to feel better. So this is my new years resolution: To listen to my body and treat it with respect.
Listen to what Gina has to say about this:
“As a kid I was always told I was “big boned.” In grade school, I towered over my peers year after year and even now nothing has really changed—except my weight. At any given point in my life I would have never consider myself “thin” or “skinny,” I was never built to be that way. However, in middle school I gained a lot of weight. Clinically, I was considered obese. Emotionally, I wasn’t happy. Even at such a young age, I realized that I needed to lose weight for my health and my well-being.
Over the course of the next year, I lost weight with the support of my mom and helpful weight-loss programs. I lost the weight slowly and began exercising and learning to eat right. That was about 10 years ago, and my journey hasn’t ended. I’m still tall, and I’m still big boned, but I’m healthy—and I love my body. I’m still not “thin” or “skinny,” but I feed my body right and try my best to be physically active. All bodies are different; some are thin; some are tall; others are wide; and some are short. As humans we aren’t all made to look the same, but our body’s all deserve mutual respect. With all of the messages out there that are telling us how we need to look, it can be hard to focus on how our bodies make us feel. We will all have days when we aren’t feeling 100% confident in our own skin. But, what’s important is that we do our best to be healthy and treat our body’s right, no matter what the size. “
Posted By iamincontrol | November 11, 2014
5:30AM: BUUZZZ!! BUUUUZZZ!! BUUUUZZZ!! My alarm goes off with a growl as I roll over in my bed. The weights, my coach, and my football team are anticipating my gruffy arrival for morning practice. As I start my upright plank exercise, my coach left his perch in the corner with his arms crossed to pull me into the next room. My coach proceeded to chew me out for what he called my “lack of dedication towards the team.” Apparently, he did not feel like I was pushing myself in practices. It was 5:45 AM, I couldn’t even.
This is a scene familiar to many high school football players, even as the football season comes to a halt. I used to stand for hours in front of mirror: flexing, hoping, waiting for muscles to just morph and pop out of my stomach. Body image issues are for girls only, right?! WRONG! Body image affects guys, too– just in a different way. Many guys think they are either too small or too big, and need to have this big muscular body. But the more I lifted with my team, muscle did grow, but never big enough or in the right spots. I wanted to look like the guys in magazine ads and Sports Illustrated covers.
So, I started my quest for the six-pack. The summer was returning and my job as a lifeguard approaching; the only way I was willing to hit the pool was a six pack. I hit the salad bar at school and told my mother I wasn’t hungry. I did more crunches in that month before the pool opening than I ever did in my life. But still on pool opening, there was no six-pack to show off. I had failed my quest. But when I looked around, no one that day had a six pack either. That day, I stepped up to the edge of the pool, dipped my toe in the refreshing water, decided to take my shirt off, and dove into that summer head first.
Posted By iamincontrol | November 10, 2014
Just like most of America, I am a huge fan of Maroon 5’s music. When the Iowa State Fair announced, a few years ago, that Maroon 5 and Train would be a headliner in their concert series. I was sold and could be found near the front on the right side of the stage jamming to “Moves Like Jagger” and “Hey, Soul Sister.” The band’s front man, Adam Levine, has gotten a lot of attention lately for his marriage and role on the popular TV show, “The Voice.” But with the video above, I am starting to rethink my love for the band?
If you haven’t watched the video, the video displays Adam Levine stalking his wife in the grocery store, on the street, and even in her bedroom. In addition, the lead man is found taking photos of his “prey”. Lastly, Adam is displayed running around a cooler hugging shanks of meat and pour blood over himself. The video leads the viewer wondering—what is the point and why?
Is Adam just trying to show off his wife? Show off his abs? I am not sure. But one thing the video does is tries to “okay” stalking and turning people into pieces of meat to devour. Some people may say that this is art or not care, but what does this say about how we treat our boyfriends or girlfriends. What does this say about how we treat those that we care about? As a piece of meat, I want to never be thought of as that. Maybe Maroon 5 went for the shock factor; but before they sing lines like, “hunt you down, eat you alive”, they should think about turning people into a side of beef.
Posted By iamincontrol | October 21, 2014
I developed an eating disorder in high school. It didn’t happen right away, but gradually during my first semester. I had just transferred schools. I had always been pretty active, but I noticed myself working out a lot more than usual. I was so busy with homework, tests, and adjusting to my new school and life that I really didn’t think anything of it.
After being at school for a few weeks, my family started to notice me slimming down. They complimented me on my hard work and becoming more interested in my health. It wasn’t long before that planted a seed in my brain that if I was going to work on my health, I would need to start eating healthy foods too.
That’s when everything went downhill. I started keeping track of everything I ate. I was so obsessed that I used a calorie counter app on my phone so I could record my meals to know how many calories I was consuming. I gradually started cutting back on my meals to see how low I could get my calories to be that day. I would also record how much I would work out and be able to see how many calories I would burn. I never went in public to exercise.
Posted By iamincontrol | September 16, 2014
As you go through puberty and your teenage years, you may notice that you sweat more than you did as a kid. Sometimes this is a good thing – your body sweats when it gets hot and needs to cool down. But sweating can be embarrassing, and you may want to know what else causes sweating and what you can do to combat it.
- Heat and humidity
- Emotions such as stress, anger, or being nervous
- A fever
- Caffeine (the more caffeine you have, the more you sweat)
- Spicy foods
- Some medicines
- Alcohol or smoking
How to Combat Sweating & Odor:
- Shower or take a bath every day. Wash off the odors from a full day of sweating so you stay fresh and clean.
- Calm down. Easier said than done, but if you can learn to combat your stress, you may be able to decrease the amount of sweating that occurs from being stressed or nervous.
- Use a deodorant or an antiperspirant, or both. A deodorant just masks the smell of sweat, while an antiperspirant can decrease how much you sweat.
- Wear cotton clothing, especially socks. Cotton absorbs the moisture from sweat instead of trapping it.
- Don’t wear the same shoes every day. Try to at least switch between two pairs of shoes so that each pair has one day to dry out before you wear them again.
See your doctor if you have tried all these options and nothing has helped. Sweating is normal for most teens, but it may be more serious for some and require medical attention. Some teens may have a medical condition called Hyperhidrosis, which leads to excessive sweating. To learn more about Hyperhidrosis and how to control excessive sweating, go here.
Don’t sweat it, you are in control!
Posted By iamincontrol | August 19, 2014
My freshman year of high school I was involved in many sports, but it wasn’t until track season that I thought I needed to lose weight. The other girls on my relay team were not the same size as I was. I thought that because I was bigger than them, it was slowing me down. I began restricting what I would eat and when I would eat it. I wouldn’t eat lunch on race days because in my mind, there was a correlation between my weight and my race times.
I was frustrated when my times weren’t improving and thought the only explanation was because I needed to lose more weight. I had already lost around 15 pounds in 2 months, and my coaches began to notice my lack of energy. My race performance actually began to worsen.